Since I've started dating my now fiancee (2 years) we've had problems sexually... most of the time when we have sex (which is rare) I end up with Bacterial Vaginoisis... and now I just got digonoised with Pelivic Inflammatory Disease... also, whenever we have sex theres a really strong odor... and it lasts on me for a few days. I read online that some women have different PH balances than their man... so the odor is natural in that sense... but I think it might be for different reasons... My fiancee doesnt shower alot... maybe once every week, if I'm lucky... Could I be getting infections from him being dirty down there? I've had other partners in the past and never gotten anything like this before... I dont want to not have sex with him, because he's my fiancee, I love him alot, but I think its funny that whenever we have sex after he's showered, I feel fine... and if we have sex when he hasnt taken a shower or cleaned down there... I get an infection... I'm too embarassed to talk to my doctor, and I have an appointment on Monday... Does anyone know if not showering can give a woman bacterial infections like that? (more...)

how much foreplay do you women get before sex? My man seems to think foreplay isn't so important like either none at all or only a quick couple of minutes of it. He's already been spoken to about it. Is this normal for a man? And in your relationship do you experience a lot of foreplay b4 sex? or not (more...)

i'm a 32 year old woman, with 2 children (4yrs and 8 months), and a 36 year old husband (he's like having 3 more 4 year olds!). my question is ..... is it common to have a high sexual desire than your male partner/spouse? i guess i was under the impression that males are usually ready to go at the drop of a hat... i'm rarin' to go all the time and my husband well lets just say i end up spending more time with battery operated devices (i made him an appointment today to see about blue pills!). (more...)

I have been in sexual activity, on surface with no penetration , I am a virgin. well what confuses me that i had some confusion in my period for past two months ..after the i saw on my under wear.. like dark mucus .. i was not there after the activity .. what this could be , is it the start of my period or hymen? (more...)

Check this out:http://abcnews.go.com/Health/Sex/Story?i... In this news article that I came across it suggest that men that lose their virginity (have intercourse for the first time) after the age of 21-23 are more prone to sexual dysfunction. I am curios to know other peoples opinions on this. I think society on the whole looks down on men that have a hard time dating, or getting sexual partners. Think "40 year old virgin" Personally I found the movie to be in bad taste, with no humor involved. While I had a hard time sitting through that whole movie I suspect it has more to do with my perspective. I am 25 years old going on 26 and have never been able to get a girl to go out with me for more than a week. I have never had sex, and despite being in decent shape I am mostly considered undesirable to women. (more...)

I have not had any sexual experience with a woman till now but i do masturbate. after i reach orgasm once almost immediately my penis becomes small again and the problem is that it takes quite some time to get back to an erected position. i mean since i have not had any real experience can anyone tell me if this is normal. i mean any video of sex that i have seen, taking not only porn stars, i have seen that the guys almost just after the first O again get erection and ready for the second one and also that they last long. Please help.... (more...)

I would like to pursue my education in public health. I'm from a social science/international development background. I am mostly interested in injuries, violence, mental health and women's health. I'm volunteering at the Sexual Assault Center but I'm sure there's something else I could do during the summer. (more...)

Just reading about the BB girls, and one of them (a 53 yr old woman from E.London) is described as an 'unemployed sexual health worker' so.... she is unemployed... does that mean there is no one with a 'sexual health' (??) problem in East London? (more...)

is sexual health more impotant to men or women?? (more...)

what do you think if you feel that its the right thing to do and she all so feels that way sure there are many cases were a husband has another man have sex with is wife because...... (more...)