Okay, I’ve always heard about visits to a male gyno being uncomfortable and at least 5-10x more humiliating than with a female ob/gyn. Men don’t seem to care, ore even understand, what women have going on, just as long as they get to see their privates. I’ve even seen this thing on TV about a lady who saw a male gyno, and it was obvious that he was perverted because he always talked with her on his lap, didn’t seem to care if she was sick with HIV or whatever (not that she HAD HIV or whatever), and the police found out that he had been doing that with 71 of his other patients and was sentenced to jail, and the lady stuck to female gynos from that day forward. Preferrably, I would choose a female ob/gyn because you can talk more comfortably and openly about women’s sexual health issues, and women gynos actually seem to UNDERSTAND and CARE. It’s nothing discriminating at all!!! But sometimes you get the feeling that some male gynos are…well..perverted. And it really does seem uncomfy..

He’s been to the doc and has a clean bill of health. He’s active and physically perfect. He is able to masturbate with porn and has always been very sexually active. We’ve known one another for several years and we spend allot of time together. We enjoy one another’s company and I’ve always been very turned on by him. I sexually ready for him easily through touch, kiss and even conversation. I’m in my 40s & fit and we’ve been dating one another exclusively for about a month now. I’m not stressing him about it, but when we are having sex, he just seems to lose focus and limp out. I know he’s worried about it and I try to assure him that everything’s fine. He tells me not to worry about it. I just can’t help wonder if he isn’t still horny for his ex & thinking of her or if he’s simply not into me anymore. His ex still calls & wants him back, but he says he doesn’t want her. Just seems that the little head isn’t saying what the big head is saying. Am I jumping to conclusions?

Im 26 and married and feel it was a big mistake. I’m from a rough council estate and most of my familys banged up or out and on benefits. I decided my life would be different. One thing God gave me was my looks and my big **** and i decided early on they were going to be used to snag a man and get me out of the crap life i could have ahead of me. I started dancing in a club..and low and behold one of the punters took a shine to me in the form of my husband of 4 months. My life has changed completely. I now live in a 6 bedded mansion outside of town and i dont need to work although i would still do my topless dancing but my husband asked me to stop. Hes a good man, hes 45 and works really hard to build up his business empire which brings him to the far east for work very often. Hes gone at the moment and I’m afraid to say it but i’ve been screwing around and went back to the club a few nights and had a few flings. I dont know what it is about me, but i’m very sexual and am horny alot..and well…sex is one thing my mans not great at…i find the more common the man the better the sex and i’m sorry to say i’ve gone back to my old haunts and have now had sex with 5 different people since i’ve married. It not a self esteem thing, i quiet love myself and i know my husband loves me, and i know basically i could have any man i wanted..its purely..i love sex. Have you heard of any woman who loves it so much shes willing to put marriage on the line. I always play it safe by the way and i’ve been tested loads of times and am fine. I’m not stupid about sexual health so dont give me that rant please

What i mean is, do you feel like your pleasing rather than being pleased? Do you feel like your needs in this area are not being met? If a man did his his homework and focused now and then on pleasing you, how would you feel? Do you feel that men don’t consider women’s sexual health and well being enough during relationships? And what are the steps you would like to take to alter this if need be?
The reason i ask the above is i don’t want to get into a relationship and feel like ones doing all the pleasing and the other is left out. I want to make a potential partner feel good about themselves, And happy generally.
So i would like to hear some of your views and thoughts about this subject, all intelligent answers will be appreciated thanks ladies!

went to a sexual health care center to check for STDs after I was sexually assaulted. A man digitally penetrated my vagina after masterbating.
During my first appointment, I explained to the clinician that I was sexually assaulted by a bisexual male and I was concerned about possibly contracted HIV.
She advised me that I should go to the health department to get tested.
I just received a copy of my complete file that I requested and she wrote down “Advised HIV test for coitus unprotected with bisexual male.”
She failed to write down that it was a sexual assault. Now it looks like it was a consentual act. Also, I did not have coitus unprotected. Doesn’t she know that a woman can be sexually assaulted without having the attacker insert his penis into the vagina? Why did she assume it was coitus? I know it is incredibly rare to get HIV from a digital pentration, but there is still a slim chance.
Should I have my record ammended? Also, during my second visit, I explained my assault more in depth to the clinician (a different clinician was working that day). This time I clarified and stated “I was sexually assaulted when a man inserted his finger into my vagina.” This time she wrote”Sexual Assault ‘He fingered me’”
Now it looks like I had a sexual assualt in which I said “He fingered me” AND a consentual coitus with a bisexual male.
Their use of the term “fingered” makes it look as if I was describing a consentual act. Also, my sexual assault looks less convincing since it appears that I voluntarily had sexual intercourse with a bisexual male.
Should I have it ammended? Why did she assume that “sexual assault” meant vaginal/penile intercourse? One can sexually assault another in numerous ways besides putting his penis into the vagina.
Thoughts?

Is it just a sexual turn on or what?

I went to a sexual health care center to check for STDs after I was sexually assaulted. A man digitally penetrated my vagina after masterbating.
During my first appointment, I explained to the clinician that I was sexually assaulted by a bisexual male and I was concerned about possibly contracted HIV.
She advised me that I should go to the health department to get tested.
I just received a copy of my complete file that I requested and she wrote down “Advised HIV test for coitus unprotected with bisexual male.”
She failed to write down that it was a sexual assault. Now it looks like it was a consentual act. Also, I did not have coitus unprotected. Doesn’t she know that a woman can be sexually assaulted without having the attacker insert his penis into the vagina? Why did she assume it was coitus? I know it is incredibly rare to get HIV from a digital pentration, but there is still a slim chance.
Should I have my record ammended? Also, during my second visit, I explained my assault more in depth to the clinician (a different clinician was working that day). This time I clarified and stated “I was sexually assaulted when a man inserted his finger into my vagina.” This time she wrote”Sexual Assault ‘He fingered me’”
Now it looks like I had a sexual assualt in which I said “He fingered me” AND a consentual coitus with a bisexual male.
Their use of the term “fingered” makes it look as if I was describing a consentual act. Also, my sexual assault looks less convincing since it appears that I voluntarily had sexual intercourse with a bisexual male.
Should I have it ammended? Why did she assume that “sexual assault” meant vaginal/penile intercourse? One can sexually assault another in numerous ways besides putting his penis into the vagina.
Thoughts?
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Why is it if we here on P/S were to ask a question containing matter of sexual or explicit content, we get a violation for it.? So there are other categories to place those types of questions, but we chose to place questions under the P/S forum! If it’s all about the content of question being too sesxual for the younger Y users, clue: They are free to roam the site as they so choose, in the areas of choice whether it be about Sexual Health, Women’s Health, Men’s Health…etc…These all would probably have strong matters or concerns that perhaps do not pertain to the minds of younger curious users!
Agree or Disagree? Hope I made some type of sense

I am involved with a woman who is 22 years older than I am. I am 26 and she is 48. She is divorced, has 2 children. Two children are married and separated.
I know her from 5 years. She faced lot of difficulties in her life.
When she was admitted for one surgery in a hospital before last 6 month, whole days I stayed with her for her support after her come back to home. She couldn’t move to toilet or what ever, I help to her to move toilet and bed and support her always.
This kind of relationship now changed to a good relationship. Everyday we have sex and sleep together in same bed. She is feel very comfortable in sleep with me.
Now I don’t worry about the age difference at all. Now she and I have sex everyday. It is affect her health.

I am involved with a woman who is 32 years older than I am. I am 23 and she is 55. She is divorced, has 2 children. Two children are married and separated. I know her from 10 years. She is very kind & attractive.
When she was admitted for a treatment in a hospital, I stayed with her for her support after her come back to home. She couldn’t move to toilet or what ever for the three month period, I help to her to move toilet and bed and support her always. (same as a nurse /care taker)
This kind of relationship now changed to a good relationship. Now we have sex and sleep together in same bed. She is feeling very comfortable in sleep with me. We are love each other. She is thinking about me as a big support in her life.
Now her health is more improvement and she can move to all place in my home.
I thing main reason for her health improvement only is our sex relationship and romance.
What is your opinion? (from mature woma